Stephen Joseph Twilliger “Steve”
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Stephen Joseph Twilliger (Steve), 75, passed away peacefully at his home on February 25, 2026, following a nine-year decline due to Primary Progressive Aphasia (FTD) He was born on September 5, 1950.
Steve was predeceased by his father, Raymond J. Twilliger; mother, Elizabeth (Oster) Twilliger and brother, James Twilliger. Survived by his devoted wife of 54 years, Jean (Trendell) Twilliger; sons, Stephen (Amanda), Kevin (Laura); brothers, Tom Twilliger (Laura) of PA, Edward Twilliger (Debbie) and Raymond; beloved grandchildren, Ryan, Catherine, Owen and Alden; many close family and friends.
Steve was a lifelong resident of Greece, New York. He grew up on Hoover Drive, attended St. John’s Primary School, and graduated from Olympia High School, where he met the love of his life, Jean. They were married in September,1972 and built a beautiful life together that spanned more than five decades.
Steve began his career as a machinist with Farrell Corporation for 12 years before dedicating 30 years of service to Wegmans Food Markets leading their Store Maintenance Department. He took pride in his work and in providing for his family.
Above all else, Steve cherished his family. He was a devoted husband to Jean, proud loving father and a grandfather whose heart grew with every addition to the family. Watching his sons build their own lives with their loving wives and children brought him so much joy. He was handy and hardworking, always tending to his home and yard. He enjoyed a good round of golf, and had a natural gift for striking up conversations wherever he went making everyone he met feel instantly welcome and at ease. When Steve entered the room all felt right with the world. He will be remembered fondly for his easygoing nature, his warm smile, and his ability to make everyone around him feel like they belonged. He was deeply loved and will be greatly missed.
His Celebration of Life service will be held on Saturday, March 7, 2026, at 10:00 a.m. at Trinity Episcopal Church, 3450 West Ridge Road, Greece, NY 14626. Interment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Steve’s memory to: The association for Frontal Temporal Degeneration (theAFTD.org) or a favorite charity of your choice.
Deepest sympathy for your loss, Jean and family.
JoAnne Maier
Jean we are so sorry you have lost your best friend and life partner. Steve was family first, he talked often of the boys, daughter in-laws and grandchildren. Steve always seemed to have a smile on his face. At work he always had a reassuring way about him, relax take a breath we will get through this together. I remember so many times at the end of the workday Steve would call me (Hey Stuart what ya doing?). I replied just packing it up for the day, Steve quickly responded me you for a beer. Steve was a guy you could take to forever. I will forever cherish those conversations. I loved when Sue, myself, Steve and Jean got together. Conversation and laughs came easy. Steve, we know you’re in Heaven, you will be missed but never forgotten. Love you my friend
My deepest condolences to Steve’s wife, and family and friends.
I am so heartbroken to hear of his nine year long decline with FTD and his passing.
Steve was a wonderful man to know and work with . I was fortunate enough to do so for many many years as the annual flower grower for Wegmans.
Steve earned his way into heaven in many ways…and I for one appreciate his dedication to a hometown grower.
Bless you, Steve. And bless you Mrs. Twilliger…Marty DeConinck Wooledge
I am very sorry to hear about Steve’s passing. I grew up with Steve at St. John’s and homeroom at Greece Olympia. I always admired his sense of humor and friendliness. May your treasured memories keep him with you always. Sending prayers and condolences to Jean and family.
I worked with Steve in the 70’s at Farrell Corp and remember he always seemed to be of good humor.
I worked for Steve as a contractor’s representative for many years and he was the absolute best to work for..He was honest and dedicated to the highest degree.
My condolences to Jean and his family..
Very sorry to learn of Steve’s passing and send sincere condolences to his family. I knew Steve from many years at Wegmans, and he was always very helpful with a variety of projects I was working on in the Produce Office. I suspect he wanted to run the other way when he saw me coming, yet he didn’t; instead he did what he could to help me get the project finished and I always appreciated his help. Steve was a good guy and I’m saddened to hear this news.
Jean, I am saddened and heart broken to read of Steve’s passing. He was a great neighbor and someone I would consider a friend who I could always count on for help with almost anything. I would occasionally run into Wegman’s employees, who all knew Steve, and would have nothing but nice things to say about him. Obviously I have great memories of Steve and your family with the boys and especially with Steve’s involvement with them whether it was sports, Scouts, or any type of activity. I’m sure he was also just as great with the grandkids. Jean, again, please accept my condolences to you, Stevie, and Kevin.
We will always remember him as a dedicated family man and his unwavering business ethics. He bled “Wegman’s Blood”.
Appreciated every career opportunity, he earned them all.
Old School, he always kept his word.
Lasting memory to all who knew him.