Shari F. Miranda



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Shari F. Miranda Spencerport: January 17, 2018 at age 56. Predeceased by her father, Harry Fischer. Survived by her mother, Judy A. Wood; devoted husband, LTC (R), Ulises Miranda III; loving children, Courtney (fiancé, John Witkowski) Miranda, Taylor (Austin) Allen, Ulises Miranda IV; stepmother, Charlotte Fischer; brothers & sisters; nieces; nephews; loving family & dear friends. Shari was a proud veteran of the United States Army and served our Country as an Army Nurse for 4 years in Hawaii. She transitioned into an ICU Nurse and later worked for Borge & Ide Imaging. She enjoyed gardening, crocheting and cooking. She was a wonderful wife and mother. She will be dearly missed by all who knew her. Shari’s Funeral Service will be celebrated Saturday, February 17th 10:00 AM in the chapel of Vay-Schleich & Meeson Funeral & Cremation Chapels, 1075 long Pond Road. Private Interment. For more information and to sign her online guestbook, visit


  1. Jerry and Lisa Santangelo on January 26, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Shari will definitely be missed. She was a very caring, loving person that made sure everyone else was happy. She was always like ‘an aunt’. We know that she is in a much better place, happy and healthy. We also know that God will watch over Toby and the rest of the family and make sure that they will all be ok. Shari, I will never forget dancing in Grandpa’s basement to Tina Turner. God bless, take care…

  2. Jim Phelps on January 26, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Toby, I have no words beyond I love you and your family.

  3. Ed and Nancy Mauro on January 30, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Toby We will always remember Shari. She and Cindy spent a lot of time baby sitting for our sons. She always had a smile on her face. She will be sadly missed by all.

  4. Sharon Decker on January 31, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Shari, you were one in a million. Our time together in Gawsii is jenirues I will always cherish. Toby, my heart is breaking for you and the kids. She’s too young yo he gone. Love you, Sharon

  5. Chuck Teel on January 31, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Toby, we are very sorry for your loss. We are praying for you and your family.

  6. Michelle Barley on February 1, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Toby I am so sorry for your loss. Shari is the most loving and caring person that I have be blessed to know. I am at a lost for words and constant prayers for your family.

  7. Gail and David Glogowski on February 10, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Our 4th sister has left us and life will never be the same. We shared so many experiences and laughs. Road trips and holidays will be missing her humor and good cooking. I can’t believe she is gone. It seems unreal. We will never forget our dearest friend and we will hold her in our hearts and memories until we meet again in Heaven. Love always to Toby, Courtney, Taylor and TJ.

  8. Lisa Flynn on February 12, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Shari was the best nurse I ever had the pleasure of working with. Her humor and wit were hands done the best. She will be missed every day. She definitely left an impression on me and everyone she worked with. My condolences to her wonderful family and husband. It truly was a pleasure to have known her.

  9. Roxannne Auberger on February 12, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Toby and family, I was very sorry to hear of Shari’s passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during these most difficult days. In sympathy,

  10. Mickie Visco on February 14, 2018 at 12:00 am

    I miss Sheri every single day at work .She was a wonderful coworker and friend So sweet and thoughtful to her coworkers and all of her patients .I miss hearing her laugh , and her calming voice when she spoke with her patients .She will be greatly missed ,she was a true gem . I hope your heavy hearts are lifted by the wonderful memories you shared. Xo

  11. Any Olsen on February 16, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Shari has left us too early. Her laugh will forever be missed. She was my personal nurse… Always willing to help me, give me advice for my kids, or even treat my dogs. She was a world-class cook. Everything Shari made in the kitchen was amazing. She was practical, and real and always gave true down to earth advice. Her love for her family shined through her every single day. I will always miss her.

  12. Ulises Miranda III on February 17, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Can you imagine us getting married any later then we did? One less day calling you my wife, one less day of living our life together, one less day of seeing and being with you. No way! I can’t imagine having to wait to have married you any second more than 6 weeks! We did it right! I was able to be in your arms sooner because that is where I wanted to be- it was truly love at first sight! I could not have loved anyone more then I love you. We were meant for each other. We were meant to marry quickly and love each other forever! We did it right my love. I clearly see it now. The Lord wanted us together sooner so we could enjoy our love together longer. No regrets my love, no regrets. So I am not going to think about what could have been or what we are going to miss without you. Instead I am going to thank the Lord for the time we shared together. From the soft touch of your hand to the fine hair on your head, I can remember the life you gave me and the love you gave to the world. You would always say that you loved me so much that the statement “It makes Toby happy” became the reason you did so many things. That same happiness I hope I returned to you in love, honesty, trust, and hard work. Married in 6 weeks! We did it right my love. We did it right!

  13. Ashley Cannan on February 17, 2018 at 12:00 am

    I feel so beyond blessed to have had Shari in my life. I worked with Shari at B&I from 2013-2016, in the start of my career in MRI. I could always count on Shari to always make me laugh, even on some pretty tough days. I will always remember the times Shari had me, Jackie, and Patty crying laughing. Shari was much like me- witty, no filter, and sensitive. Not only have Shari and I shared many laughs but we also shared teas. I called Shari “Mom squared” because she was the one person at work I always found myself going to for comfort when my life got turned upside down. She always treated me as her own child. We also shared the love for cooking and one day Shari brought in from home many of her recipes and I made copies of them. After some very difficult life altering events in my life and deciding i wanted to move, the only person I went to for advice and she was always very encouraging for me to do what makes me happy. I am so grateful for our breakast date back in December and being able to hug you one last time. Shari- thank you for always treating me like your own, for the non stop laughs, for your wise words and encouragement, and for being such a bright shining light on mine and many peoples lives. I will miss you more than you know.

  14. Lucy Miranda-Gonzalez on February 17, 2018 at 12:00 am

    My sister Shari, oh how I will miss our talks, your laugh and strength. You were my my mentor and my rock while I struggled through nursing school. I always kept you with me, in my mind and in my heart. With every test and clinical, all your funny stories and words of inspirations stayed with me till I (WE) 😉 reached my success in completing my bachelors in Nursing.You taught me how to be a good wife, cook and friend. I will cherish all the memories. Shari, you’re one of a kind. I will never, ever forget all you’ve done for me and my family. Until we meet again.. LOVE YOU ALWAYS and FOREVER! -your sister, Lucy

  15. Jim and Sharon Quigley on February 17, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Tobby, words cannot express what I am feeling for you and your family. I still get chills thinking about you and Shari. I just want to thank you for all the love and support you gave us when we were stationed together at Fort Polk, LA. Fort Polk was an experience to say the least, but Shari was definitely there for me. She was the epitome of a mother and a nurse. She will be truly missed by all. If you ever need anything, we will alway be there for you and your family!!

  16. Peter Ingalsbe Col. (R) GVC/MOAA on February 17, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Ulises, so sorry to hear of your families loss at such a young age. My prayers and kind thoughts to you and your family.

  17. Peter tabone on February 18, 2018 at 12:00 am

    I truly believe that we are put on this Earth for a predetermined time so that we can learn from the people that we surround ourselves with. It is very clear that your family had a great mother and teacher to learn from. I feel very blessed to no you and your family. I will never forget the kindness compassion and wisdom that Sheri would share with us all. She was truly an amazing woman and will be missed but never forgotten.

  18. Greg and Kathy Gonzalez on February 20, 2018 at 12:00 am

    Toby, Our prayers and heartfelt condolences go out to your family. Shari’s upbeat and effervescent personality will always be remembered. God Bless you always.

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