Patricia L. Barry



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Rochester: Tuesday, December 30, 2008. Predeceased by father John Barry; mother, Hazel Barry; sister, Susan Lillig. Survived by her nieces Danielle (Michael), Alexandra (Joseph), and Courtney; great-nephew, Louis, cousins; and many dear friends. No prior calling. Her Memorial Service will be held Friday 10 AM at Durand United Church of Christ, 4225 Culver Road. Private Interment. Contributions may be made to the National Kidney Foundation in her memory


  1. Janette Porretti on September 28, 2012 at 12:00 am

    Danielle, Alex, and Courtney, Our sincere sympathy for the passing of your Aunt Patty. We were in Ellicottville, NY and unable to return home. I have been praying for her final Peace for sometime. Patty was a good soul and always tried to help each one of you, when she could. All she ever wanted from life was love. Love Bob and Janette

  2. Karen Jaeger Conderman on September 28, 2012 at 12:00 am

    I am so saddened by the passing of Pat. We were school mates and remained friends… She will be missed. Sincerrely, Karen

  3. carleen rolfe on September 28, 2012 at 12:00 am

    I have known Patty for forty-seven years and have loved her that long. She was so giving and caring. She always put a smile on my face. I will always remember our special times together especially in New Orleans. Iwill miss you Patty and will never ever forget you–.all my love…Carleen..

  4. Judy Palma on September 28, 2012 at 12:00 am

    I knew Patty thru my sister, Carleen. Patty was a beautiful, fun-loving, kind and generous person. She helped people without reservation. I loved her. Also, thank you for the most touching, soul-searching and realistic funeral service that I have attended. It was real and made me stop and think about many things in my own life. Thank you ……..

  5. Ed Hart on September 28, 2012 at 12:00 am

    I worked for Patty and the Barry family for 7 years starting as a dishwasher and becoming a short order cook. Patty will always hold a special place in my heart. I was very young and she helped me become part of who I am today. Patty and John inspired my passion for cooking (although not my career anylonger). I miss those days at ‘Johnnys’ and will never forget them. God Bless!

  6. carleen rolfe on September 28, 2012 at 12:00 am

    pat, always remembered,my best friend for life….

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