Lawrence “Larry” Timothy Buckley

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 Rochester, NY~ Lawrence (Larry) Timothy Buckley, age 73, passed away suddenly in his home on March 16th, 2026. Larry is survived by his wife of 39 years, Janice T Buckley (although had been close friends for 52 years) and his son William L Buckley. He is predeceased by his parents, William Ward Buckley and Joyce Hinkelman Buckley, and beloved brother-in-law William R Then. Larry is survived by his brother Robert Buckley (Rene) of San Antonio, Texas and his sister Marcia Buckley (Mark Lembke) of Lexington, Kentucky. He would want everyone to know how much he loved his nephews in San Antonio, Brandon Buckley (Nathalya Snell) and Jacob Buckley (Abby), as well as his niece and nephew in Rochester, Lisa Then and William J Then.

Larry joined the US Navy following high school, settling back in Rochester where he worked with whom he would describe to be the best co-workers at DuPont, ITT Automotive, and Valeo. To say Larry loved fast cars (think Chevy SS cars: Chevy Nova SS, Chevy Chevelle SS) so much so that he named his dog “Chevy” would be an understatement. Actually, any type of muscle car would pique his interest and start a conversation sure to entertain the listener. However, perhaps Larry will be remembered most for his staunch love of the Oakland Raiders (even after they became the Las Vegas Raiders!). Locally, Larry watched the Rochester Americans Hockey Team whenever he could and would post instant messages to family and friends updating them on the score throughout the game; actually, if you had a favorite team of any sport, and if Larry knew that, he found great joy in texting you, endlessly keeping you up to the moment about how that game was going!

Larry just loved life. He treasured his family and friends more than anything else. He asked for very little and needed very little. If it were 20 degrees and he only had one shirt, if you needed it, he would immediately take it off and give it to you. Those who know him best know that his greatest joys came from time with family as well as finding the perfect gift for those he loved.  His primary care physician said that despite all he had to endure physically, he always showed up at appointments with a big smile on his face, never letting his health factor into his desire to live a happy life; he never complained, he was always gracious and thankful for kindnesses shown that many take for granted.  As his best friend and spouse Jan stated, “Larry lived life colorfully!”

The family would like to extend sincere thanks to Dr Thomas Carroll MD, PhD, his internist at University of Rochester, Strong Internal Medicine, for his care, concern, and willingness to leave no stone unturned when trying to help Larry. His family believes if not for Dr Carroll, Larry’s life would have been much different.

If you would like to make a donation in honor of Larry, we would ask you to consider his favorite groups:

Special Olympics, 2600 Virginia Ave NW, 11th Floor, Washington, DC, 20037  

Tunnel to Towers Foundation, 2361 Hylan Blvd, Staten Island, NY 10306

Prayers and fun memories are always appreciated as well!

His Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Thursday (April 9th) 10:00 AM at St. Margaret Mary Church, 401 Rogers Parkway, Rochester NY 14617. Interment to follow in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery.

12 Comments

  1. Bob Carroll on March 19, 2026 at 4:55 pm

    So sorry hear that. We were going to go to at least 1 Mets game. I will miss talking to him about our Mets and Raiders. We both had the same team . He will be missed



  2. Steven Dalton on March 19, 2026 at 5:55 pm

    Larry was a great person, always greeted you with a smile and always asked if he do anything to make your day easier! Always enjoyed your conversations, will truly be missed! R.I.P. my friend!



  3. Stephanie McIntyre on March 20, 2026 at 2:26 am

    I’m going to miss our talks during the Mets games how they stink and then how great they are doing, I am also going to miss Cousin Larry mocking my Chicago Bears during football season. I always looked forward to getting a funny message from him about the Mets or the Bears depending on what season it was. I will miss you cousin Larry R.I.P cousin Larry ♥️



  4. Rebecca Ledwin on March 20, 2026 at 5:22 am

    So sorry for the loss of a beloved family man. May you feel at peace knowing he is at rest.



  5. Karen Bigham Kruspe on March 20, 2026 at 1:31 pm

    Well Cuz, you are in a much better place now. Hopefully you can finally meet your namesake. You will be terribly missed by me and all who knew you. There are so many memories from the time we were kids till now that I will never forget. I remember when we were kids my brothers and I would call you Dennis the Menace because you were always getting into stuff like breaking off the antenna on my dads car lol. You were always there for me when I needed you and will miss your telephone calls etc. Rest in Peace my friend you deserve it. Hey while you up there find Russ and say hi.



  6. paula wollenhaupt on March 21, 2026 at 5:04 pm

    i m so sorry for the loss of your husband and father. he was always cheerful and helpful. will miss his smile and waving!



  7. Marty Honan on March 22, 2026 at 10:11 am

    Jan, so sorry to hear of the passing of Larry. He will be surely missed by all who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.



  8. Joan Brandenburg on March 22, 2026 at 7:50 pm

    The Veterans Outreach Center extends our deepest sympathy in Larry’s passing.
    We acknowledge and are truly grateful for his service to our country.



  9. Donnie Devine Frazier ( Dee Dee ) on March 22, 2026 at 9:31 pm

    I’m Beyond Devastated Finding Out That You’re Gone , We’ve Been Like Brothers Since Working At Niblack Foods Way Back In The Early Seventies After You Got Out Of The Navy Meeting Mr & Mrs Buckley , Bobby And Karen On Edgemere Dr & Remember The Very Day You Met Jan And Later Having Billy , I Can Still Remember Us Holding Our Sons Together Proudly For Pictures And Many Of The Great Times



  10. Steve Klaassen on March 23, 2026 at 9:36 pm

    Larry always had the hottest cars in the neighborhood. I’ll miss his encouragement thru special love he had for people!💔 R.I.P. My friend!



  11. Peter DeGroff on March 24, 2026 at 1:13 pm

    I’m broken. I lost lost my “big brother”. I don’t know what to say.
    Just talked to him recently.
    Probably the greatest friend I have ever known. We had some times, sometimes good, sometimes bad, but we did them together.



  12. Mike Coffey on March 24, 2026 at 7:15 pm

    Dammit Larry! I was so looking forward to another season of mocking the Mets and you had to go do this! 🤦🏼‍♂️ So now you don’t have to deal with Trump anymore. We had a lot of good times buddy! I know you are in a better place now though. RIP…. But hey while you’re up there if you can figure out a way to send me some winning lottery ticket numbers I won’t be mad.



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