Harry W. Hiscock
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February 17, 2013. Predeceased by his parents, Charles and Carol Hiscock. Survived by brothers: Keith (Kim), Mark (Elaine), Scott, nephews: Jay(Andrea), Chris (fiancée Renee Taylor), Eric (Lindsay), Kyle, CJ, Justyn, Zachary. First cousin Gail (Bob) Skutt and other cousins and friends. Harry was a 1970 Eastridge High School graduate. Harry was a proud Marine Corp. Veteran and an avid golf, bowling and hockey fan. Family would like to extend heartfelt gratitude to all his healthcare caregivers, especially Dr. Michael Becker and Nurse Mary Dibley from Strong Memorial Oncology Department and to his loving caregivers at Sunset House. Harry’s visitation will be held Friday, February 22nd, 12-1:30 P.M. at Vay-Schleich & Meeson Funeral Home, Greece Chapel, 1075 Long Pond Road. His Memorial Service will be held at 1:30 in the Funeral Home Chapel. Interment will follow in Irondequoit Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to Sunset House, 3746 St. Paul Blvd. Rochester, NY 14617 in Harry’s memory.
Harry and I have been friends for the last 5 yrs or so and since he had been at the hospice, I talked to him twice a week for the last 3 months, we talked about many things and being here in San Diego, it was the last best thing I could do for him, from here, talk to him and listen. He was upbeat and so glad to still be here for the holidays and to see in the new year. I wished he could have seen his Birthday, but I did say an early Happy Birthday to him this last week. We talked of golf,, weather, his family, whom he loved a lot, his friends, whom he missed, Sparky the cat he missed, the wonderful people caring for him at Sunset House, and so many other things. I will miss my friend Harry and I will honor him in my heart and say a prayer each Veteran’s Day for him, Slainte (Cheers), Semper Fi and Happy Trails to you my good friend, sadness is for me, you are in a way better place with greens for miles and miles of golf. Love, Micci
Harry’s gentle acceptance of life’s end was an inspiration to me. He didn’t rage, complain, or ask for much more than a pillow-fluff while at Sunset House. He left sad hearts and a deep permanent footprint.
I was one of Harry’s nurses at Sunset House. In fact, this picture of him was from a little drive he and I took up to the harbor a few weeks ago so he could see his old stomping grounds. We sat in the car by the bay, blasting the classic rock radio station and grooving. Harry brought something special to Sunset House and not a member of our staff or volunteer team didn’t love him like family by the time he passed. His last night before beginning his journey, we had a special ceremony outside with candles lit in remembrance of many people who have passed through this world. Laurie, our director, and some volunteers bundled Harry up and took him outside in his chair so he could enjoy the evening, which he apparently did immensely. Harry was a free spirited soul who lived life the way he wanted, to the fullest. He loved jazz and oldies music, and was especially fond of jelly donuts!!! We all learned a lot from him about patience and bravery. When Harry came to us Nov. 1, he was given 2 weeks to live. Being the fighter that he was, he surpassed 3 months and almost made it to the birthday party we were planning. During his last few hours, he a very loving nurse, Ann, taking care of him and a dedicated volunteer who sat holding his hand and singing to him until his family arrived to be with him until his last breath. The house seems so empty without his presence now. I think that I can speak on behalf of all of us at Sunset House, that Harry was a gift to us. Thank you, Harry, for the impact you had on so many of us in so many different ways. God bless.
Micki, Harry loved your phone calls and always had a smile on his face after you hung up. He was lucky to have a friend like you.
Thank You Terri, he spoke very highly of the staff and volunteers there at Sunset House and felt that he was very lucky to be able to spend his last days there. Your words are beautiful and I am very happy that he had all of you there beside him. Micci