Carol Spillane Isabella



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Carol Spillane Isabella Greece, NY: Carol passed away Thursday, January 10, 2019 at age 72 surrounded by close friends and family. Carol worked for the Rochester City School District at School 42 for many years and made a great impact on all she knew. She loved spending time with her family and friends and will be missed by all. She will never be forgotten for all the love she gave and the positive impact she made on us all. She is predeceased by her parents John F. Spillane, and Mary J. Dodsworth, and siblings Mary Alice Spillane, and John P Spillane and wife Janet and niece Jennifer Gibson. Survived by her loving son David J. Isabella and wife Kelly; precious grandchildren, Olivia Marie and Justin Michael Isabella; great-granddaughter, Grace Nicole Isabella; aunt, Eileen Spillane; niece, Jada M. Loughlin and husband Kerry and great nephews Brent, John, and Nicholas Loughlin and great niece Kyra Simpson; and many loving family members and dear friends. Carol’s visitation will be held Sunday, January 13th 12-3 PM at Vay-Schleich & Meeson 1075 Long Pond Rd. Her Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Monday, January 14th 9:30 AM at St. Charles Borromeo Church, 3003 Dewey Ave. Interment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Contributions in her memory may be made to the National Kidney Foundation, Inc., 30 East 33rd Street, New York, NY 10016, 1-800-622-9010. For more information and to sign her online guestbook, visit


  1. Courtney Ricard on January 11, 2019 at 12:00 am

    David, Kelly and family,
    We are so sorry for your loss of your mom, wrapping you all in a virtual hug, and keeping you guys in our thoughts and prayers. Sending Our Love Jason, Courtney and girls

  2. Anita Chazan on January 12, 2019 at 12:00 am

    Carol, you Will be missed. May you rest in peace. Anita

  3. Steve and Kathie Frate on January 12, 2019 at 12:00 am

    David and family, may you find comfort and peace during this difficult time. Carol was such a beautiful person, and we were so blessed to have known her. She will live on in fond memories. Rest peacefully, Carol.
    With love
    Steve and Kathie

  4. Kelley Brown on January 12, 2019 at 12:00 am

    David and Kelly
    So very sorry for the loss of your mother. Keeping you guys in my thoughts and prayers. Kelley and Ted

  5. Michael Isabella on January 12, 2019 at 12:00 am

    I have known Carol for most of my adult life. Carol was a part of our family’s social life for decades. She will be missed mostly for the love she shared with our family.

  6. Marcia Carr on January 14, 2019 at 12:00 am

    I am saddened to hear of Carol’s passing. I work at the apartment complex where she lived. I loved when she came into the office and we would sit and chat like two old ladies talking about our grand kids. She spoke so lovingly of her family, especially about her grandson who was serving in the military, and her granddaughter. Carol would get so excited preparing for her granddaughter to come and stay with her. She truly cherished those summer visits they spent together.

  7. Gloria and Roland Pelliccia on January 16, 2019 at 12:00 am

    David and Kelly,
    we are so sorry for the loss of your mom. We spent many summers together as kids. She was always very loving and positive. She will be sadly missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

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