Betty J. DeCoste


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Betty J. DeCoste Rochester: Monday, September 30, 2019 at age 88. Predeceased by her parents, John and Edna Angie; husband, Donald L. DeCoste; sons, William and Peter; great-grandson, Maxwell; 11 siblings. Survived by her children, Linda (Daniel) Glanton, Dennis (Debra) DeCoste, Denise Wood, Deborah (Charles) Ward, Tina (Terry) Elie and Betty (Neil) Curtis; daughters-in-law, Corrine DeCoste, Sharon DeCoste; step-sons, Donald DeCoste and Frederick DeCoste; sisters, Lorraine and Edna; sisters-in-law, Judy and Mariam; 30 grandchildren; 61 great-grandchildren; 8 great-great-grandchildren; several nieces, nephews, cousins and dear friends. Friends may call Friday (Oct 4th) 10-12 NOON at the Vay-Schleich & Meeson, 1075 Long Pond Road. Her Graveside Prayers will follow calling in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Visiting Nurse Hospice or Rochester Regional Health System Home Care in her memory. For more information, or to sign Betty’s online guestbook, please visit To send flowers or a remembrance gift to the family of Betty DeCoste, please visit our Tribute Store.


  1. Susan Angie Drum on October 3, 2019 at 3:54 am

    She is now at peace with her loving husband, Don. She will be missed. Love you Aunt Betty.

  2. Dr. Thomas and Patricia Ashby on October 4, 2019 at 5:36 pm

    To the DeCoste family,
    With our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

    May it comfort you to know that we’re so sorry to hear of your loss.

    "We want to say that you ‘re in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time

    May the Lord bring peace and love to your family

  3. Sue Carey (McGill) on October 5, 2019 at 2:41 am

    So Sorry for your families loss, I just heard about her passing or I would have attended her service, She was always a sweet woman and always welcomed me into her home along with my dad John, they can all enjoy each others company again. My prayers are with you all at this time.

  4. Tom Angie on October 6, 2019 at 10:00 pm

    Sending our deepest condolences to all of aunt Betty’s family. She will be truly missed. With loving regards, Tom & Kerry

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