Rochester: July 28, 2013 at age 84. Wilda is survived by her children, Margaret (Andrew) Gray, Debra (Frederick) Geiger, Sandra Shannon, Glenn (Tracy) Caccamise & Brian (Ronette) Caccamise; grandchildren, Heather Gray, Lyndsay Ealey, Kaitlin (Bryce) Doty, Jennifer Geiger (James Schutz), Adam (Leslie) Geiger, Jacob, Brenna, Bridget & Grace Shannon, Joshua (Jeana) Caccamise, Zachary, Justin, Brittney & Kristopher Caccamise; great-grandchildren, Olivia, Ella, Charles, Avery & Mariah; nieces and nephews, Marty (Cheryl) Teresi, Doreen (Craig) Clark, Lori (Richard) Singley, Neil Teresi, Joan (Frank) Shortino & Michael Cappadonia; many other nieces, nephews, friends and neighbors. She is also survived by her special family and friends, Bobby & Louise (Peter McConnery) Pourier, Jean Teresi, Bill, Pat, and Jean Cornell & Sister Miriam Nugent. Wilda is predeceased by her husband, Charles Caccamise; sister and brother-in-law, Irma & Charles Teresi; brothers, Emmett & Bernard. Wilda is a long-time parishioner and volunteer at St. Charles Borromeo Church. In her spare time, she enjoyed quilting and reading. Wilda's visitation will be held Wednesday, July 31st, 4-8 p.m. at Vay-Schleich & Meeson Funeral Home, Greece Chapel, 1075 Long Pond Road. Her Funeral Mass will be celebrated Thursday, August 1st, 11:00 A.M. at St. Charles Borromeo Church, 3003 Dewey Avenue. Interment will follow Mass in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the St. Charles Borromeo Church in her memory. For more information, or to sign Wilda's online guestbook, please visit: www.MeesonFamily.com.

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  1. All our thoughts and sympathy to the extended Caccamise and Teresi families, we are all looking towards the ‘ White House on the hill’ and thinking of the good times we had with all of you
    The Maniwaki gang
    Peter, Louise, Carol, Gail, Judy

  2. Aunt Ellie you will be missed more than you could ever know! For the last time until we meet again from mom’ How do you are’ you were more like a sister than a cousin to mom! Give my dad a big hug for us. RIP sweet angel!
    Donna Teresi Hecht

  3. Grandma, you are more special to me than I can ever express. I love you with my whole heart and will always cherish all our fun times and memories. Thank you for a lifetime of blessings. Give Grandpa a big hug from me. I love you!

  4. Margaret and Family, I’m so sorry for your loss. I have happy memories of your mom and aunt and all they did at St. Charles! My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  5. My deepest sympathies to all my cousins. Your mother was a kind and gentle soul.

    Both our mothers were like sisters, I remember the times they used to spend on the phone with each other!
    Most of all I remember the miraculous recovery that she had after that terrible event in her life.
    Thinking and praying for all of you!!!
    God Bless.
    Gary Teresi

  6. Margaret, Andy and Family- I am so sorry to hear that our dear Wilda has passed. She was the most positive person that I have ever met. She was an inspiration. She made the world a better place with her bright and cheery disposition. I am so blessed to have known her. I will always remember her smile and warmth. I have sgreat memories of her at St. Charles vacation bible school, Sunday school and weekend breakfasts. She definately took an elevator staight up to our Lord!

  7. Mike McConnery

    Hi Sandy and family my condolence for you and your family.We only have one Mom.We have to remember all the good time’s spent with her till you meet again.

  8. rip grandma i love you with all my heart and miss you more than words can describe. you were the strongest person i have ever met and are an inspiration to me. i know you will be watching over all of us i will make you proud. i love you grandma cac

  9. My deepest sympathy to all the family. Your memories of Mom will certainly bring you comfort in the days ahead. As Wilda would say ‘Keep smiling’. Will remember all the good times when she visited Maniwaki. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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