timothy l.abbott
Gates: September 11, 2012 at age 50. Predeceased by his father, Thomas Abbott; dog, Clyde 'Stinky'. He is survived by his wife, Joann Paxhia-Abbott; children, Nicholas (Jessica Kirwan) Abbott & Joshua (Kathryn Puccia) Abbott; brother, Tommy Lee (Cheryl) Abbott; beloved pets, cat Rascal, duck Louie, dogs Bulger 'Humper' and Lady; many other relatives and friends. Tim was an avid collector and will be sadly missed by all who knew him. Friends may call Friday, September 14th, 2-4 & 7-9 P.M. at Vay-Schleich & Meeson Funeral Home, Greece Chapel, 1075 Long Pond Road. His Funeral Service will be held, Saturday, September 15th, 9 A.M. in the Funeral Home Chapel. Interment will follow in Oakwood Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the Wilmot Cancer Center (www.urmc.rochester.edu/cancer-center) in his memory.

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  1. none of your wishes were carried out either, i know you wanted them like dads but she didnt do that. we all know that she talked you into everything you wouldnt have made any of those decisions. i know the personal talks we had.

  2. to my brother, you are so sadly missed and the evil honcho kept us from seeing you at your funeral but not at the cemetary. karma will come around. love you,

  3. you are now with dad and our heavenly father and you are rid of ALL pain due to your illness and your pain you were caused by honcho and her followers, they will never bother you again or hurt you. you are safe now god bless you. love you

  4. my dearest brother, i am so greatful to have your 57 chevy’s i have boughten a curio cabinet for them and have them displayed for everyone to see. its my honor to have them. i miss you more and more every day that goes by and miss your texts and not seeing you when i am in your area. you are sadly missed by your only family, me jon mom chris bobbie lauren and ryan. i am soooo sorry that your wishes were not carried out you did not want to be at this funeral home you wanted everything like dad but you know how honcho is its her way or no way! that is why we your family took matters into our own hands and done the things you wanted ourselves. we know you would not agree with anything that honcho or her followers pulled everyone knows and talks about what a disgrace she and them were and are. but you know and see what we your family have done for you and continue to do for you, they dont know the personal and confidential talks you had with myself and mom and jon and they never will. god bless you and i love you and miss you tremendously!!!

  5. Happy Thanksgiving my dearest brother!! you cant even imagine how much we miss you. god bless you and the only comfort we can get out of this is that you are out of ALL pain with your illness and people and you are safe from them as well and with dad. love you very much

  6. you would not believe how ungrateful those three ????? are. i puposely went and got another marker for your grave so that you could be recongized and what do they do take your marker and the wreath that we made for you!!! i know you would be so disappointed in what is and has gone on. we cant even mourn your passing and give you things to put on your grave to remember you by without one of them taking them. are you serious?? oh but they can put cheap ???? dollar store material goofy looking things on your grave though! yea ok whatever. we your only family know the truth about what inspired we know your fear of her. i will mourn you in a different way that nobody will be able to touch a thing!

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