Greece: Suddenly at age 62 on Monday, October 22, 2012. Predeceased by his father, Stanley Durbin. Survived by his loving wife, Ann (Coffey) Durbin; children, Dr. Jennifer Durbin, Au.D. and Christopher Durbin; mother, Lucille Durbin; brothers, David (Cheryl) Durbin and Eric Durbin; sister, Debra (John) Flagg; brothers-in-law, Pat (Rosemary) Coffey and Jim (Karen) Coffey; sister-in-law, Madge (Bill) Carrington; nieces, nephew and cousins. Thomas was a proud Vietnam Veteran and is a recipient of many metals including the Bronze Star. He retired after 34 years at Eastman Kodak Co. and enjoyed his current position working for Wegman's. He will be sadly missed by his buddy Tucker and all who knew him. No prior calling. Services and entombment will be held privately. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Road, Fairport, NY 14450 in Tom's memory.

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  1. The Durbin Family
    You have our deepest and heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your husband, father, son and brother. We were so shocked to hear of Tom’s passing. He was a good friend for many years. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Don and Val Pickering
    Apex, North Carolina

  2. Dearest Ann & Family,
    Please accept our deepest sympathy on the loss of Tom. He was a wonderful and giving man who was a joy for all to know in this life. We are sending our prayers and thoughts to you during this difficult time.
    Much love and sympathy, always,
    Kathy, Jonathan, and David

  3. Dear Ann,

    Words cannot express how deeply saddened we are about loosing Tommy.We should have had more time together as kids growing up as cousins should, but unfortunately we didn’t. I have enjoyed, and will always cherish what little time we did have together and getting to know you as well. I know my Dad and Uncle Stan will take good care of him, and we now have another angel to watch over us.

    As always, much love.
    Robert & Linda

  4. Ann and Family, I am so saddened to hear of Tom’s passing. He was a great guy, a KodaFriend and I have too many thoughts of the times there to share here but, he made the tough times tolerable. He’ll always be in my thoughts. My deepest sympathies to all of you

  5. Ann……..Bruce and I send our deepest sympathy to you and the Durbin Family………I have the best of memories growing up with Tom – please know that you are in our thoughts during this most difficult time………….Tom was a great guy and we always had many laughs………

  6. Ann……so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. I know you will always remember the good times you had together, and lean on the support of family and friends during this time. Florence and I send our thoughts and prayers your way. God bless!

  7. Dearest Ann,
    My heart breaks for you and the loss of your wonderful husband Tom.
    Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this tragic time.
    Sending you much love and sympathy,
    Kathy and Gary Dimas

  8. To all of Tom’s family
    We were saddened to learn of Tom’s passing, George and I send our heartfelt sympathy to Ann and the rest of the family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

  9. To the Durbin Family: my deepest sympathy in your lose. I worked with Tom for many years and what a great guy.. I am so sorry.
    Jo Ann

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