May 27, 1946 ~ December 30, 2019

Born in: South Lima, NY
Resided in: Rochester, NY

Terry “Kathryn” Ryan
Rochester: After suffering a long illness Terry went peacefully surrounded by her family, Monday, December 30, 2019 at age 73. Predeceased by her parents, Angelo and Libby Finocchario; daughter, Gina Cook; son, Pete Cook; grandson, Ryan Helfer; daughter-in-law, Susie Cook. Survived by her husband of 33 years, Frank Ryan; her daughter, Betsy (Jim) Helfer; her son, Raymond Jr. (Julie) Cook; grandsons, Christopher Hoover, Billy Fornataro, Mike Sarvis, Greg Young; granddaughters, Jenna and Carly Cook, Tori Harper and Katie Lipton; brothers, Louie, Joe (Gloria), Angelo Jr. (Susan), Richard (Cathy) and Chuck (Joelle) Finocchario; sisters, Roe (Randy) Finocchario and Betsy (Royce) Flickner; several nieces, nephews and many special friends.
Friends may call Sunday (Jan 5th) 2-5 PM at Vay-Schleich & Meeson, 1075 Long Pond Road. Her Funeral Service will be held on Monday (Jan 6th) 10:30 AM in the Funeral Home. Interment, Oakwood Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to UR Medicine Home Care Hospice in her memory. For more information and to sign Kathryn’s online guestbook, visit www.meesonfamily.com
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Visitation: Sunday January 5, 2020 02:00 PM - Sunday January 5, 2020 05:00 PM

Vay-Schleich & Meeson - Greece Chapel
1075 Long Pond Road
Rochester, NY 14626

Service: Monday January 6, 2020 10:30 AM - Monday January 6, 2020 10:30 AM

Vay-Schleich & Meeson - Greece Chapel
1075 Long Pond Road
Rochester, NY 14626

Burial: Monday January 6, 2020 12:00 AM - Monday January 6, 2020 12:00 AM

Oakwood Cemetery
Whalen Rd
Penfield, NY 14526

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The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Terry "Kathryn" Ryan 's name.

URMC Hospice

601 Elmwood Ave Rochester, NY 14642

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  1. Remembered for her smile that could lite up a room. Always a word of encouragement when you needed one. She will be missed by here classmates at Livonia High school.

  2. To the Finnocchario family,so sorry to hear of your sister passing.Please give are condolence to everyone.

  3. Frank, please know we are thinking of you…the stories about Terry and yourself were always so entertaining…it showed in your eyes how much you loved her…be gentle with yourself ❤️

  4. My friend, Terry shared so much of herself withme. We laughed and told stories. We always said, we could solve the problems in the world in an hour. She loved to
    dance and told great stories.She was very present when you sat down with coffee for a chat, always coffee. There is a time to dance and a time to mourn. She will live on in my heart.

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