Roma
Penfield: suddenly October 28, 2010 at age 18. Survived by his loving parents, Roman and Liliya; his brothers, Evgeni, Miroslav (Nadia), Andrey (Inna), David and John; his paternal grandfather, Evgeni khabursky; his maternal grandparents, Omelian and Adelia Furdey; several loving aunts, uncles, cousins and many dear friends. Friends are invited to attend his Funeral Service will be held Saturday 10-12 at the Vay-Schleich & Meeson Funeral Home, 1075 Long Pond Road. Interment, Riverside Cemetery.

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  1. Dear Liliya, Roma and the Entire Family,
    There are just no words to say that could fully express my deep sympathy to all of you. I write this in tears. I will keep you all in my prayers, especially Roma.
    Please know that you are loved and in my thoughts. Mary Ann

  2. Dear Liliya, Roman and the wonderful Khabursky boys: I am so terribly saddened by the loss of Roma–such a dear young man with a wonderful sense of humor. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

  3. Dear Neighbors,
    We are so saddened by of Roma’s passing. There are no words to express the ache in our hearts for each one of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Tom and Peg

  4. Evgeni,

    So sorry to hear about the passing of your brother. Please know you and your family are in my families thoughts and prayers.

    God Bless, The Bolyard’s

  5. I had Roma in my 9th grade global class. He was a sweet, wonderful student to have – I remember him with a smile and special place in my heart. Please know you are in my prayers.

  6. i was so sad to hear about Roma. He was a wonderful young man. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family. Regina Darling

  7. Lil and Roman,
    I was out of town and just got back today and heard of the tragic loss of your beloved son, Roma. Words cannot express my deep sadness. I never had the pleasure of meeting him in person but I knew him through you and how proud you were of him and all of your boys. I pray that you will somehow find the strength to get through this time, to find some comfort in your faith and the love of all of your family and friends who grieve with you. Until I can give you hugs in person, I am sending you my love and prayers. May God be with you all.

  8. Many prayers are with you all at this time of loss of your son. Our sons went ot basic training together.

    May God Bless you all through this very difficult time.

    William, JoLana Randall
    PFC STEPHEN RANDALL

  9. Mir & Family,
    We are so deeply saddened and shocked to hear of your loss. Our hearts ache for you all and there are no words that will heal…only time. It is with your strong faith that you will get through this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
    All our love-
    Sincerely, The Hynes Family

  10. Never have i ever met a more loving and caring man!! I was raised knowing and believing in God and that his son died on the cross for all of our sins…my heart and soul know God is holding Roma now…he will be wathching over us all like a angel…also i believe he will be Gods right hand man…helping preparing Heaven for us all!!! Thank you 4 everything you did 4 my whole family and 4 being the God parent to my Grandson..we love you Roma and will keep you alive 4ever in my heart:):) Prayers and love go out to all family and friends..

  11. On behalf of the men and women of the 411th Engineer Brigade, I extend our heartfelt sympathies and condolence on the loss of Roma. I pray that in the coming months and years ahead, many fond and happy memories of times past will replace the grief and sadness that you feel at this time.

  12. Roma you were such awesome person you were so fun to be around. I miss you so much theres not one day where im not thinking about you, you are always on my mind. You were such a beautiful man with a beautiful soul. I’m still expecting you to walk through my door with a huge smile on your face because you were always so happy to see Brody. You were such a great godfather to him he adored you. I love you so very much Roma and i know in my heart you are happy and in a better place now. Protect us from up there i love you and miss you.

  13. Roma–I miss you. You were and still are such a strong presence in my life. I will never forget your sense of humor, your huge heart, your way with Eva, John and Aidan, and the way you helped us and many others. I keep looking out into my back yard hoping to see you there on the trampoline or holding a rake. I look out the front door, wanting to see you standing there holding your Godson, beaming with pride just like you were that day in the summer. I love you. To your family–healing thoughts for you all. I pray that you find the answers you are seeking, and that someday you understand why Roma is gone so soon.

  14. We are extremely sad to hear of your loss. Roma was a kind and gentle person and it was our privelige to know him as neighbor and friend. Our condolences to your family.

  15. We are sad to say we only had met Roma a couple of times but he was such a kind young man. He was a friend of our son’s and he will forever be in our hearts.
    Our deepest sympathies go out to his family during this truly difficult time.

  16. We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Roma. We got to know Roma at the Buffalo Airport when he was flying out to basic training with our son. Roma was a very gentle young man, and I remember him patting my son on the back and looking me in my eye stating ‘I will take care of him, he will be alright.’ From that day I knew that Roma had my son’s back.
    Our family traveled out to Ft. Leonard Wood for basic training graduation. I was so proud of Roma as he received a special award during the ceremony. After the ceremony, I searched the grounds looking for him and finally, there he was in his Army Dress Uniform standing so proud, he had just accomplished a great milestone in life. I gave him a big hug and told him how proud I was of him for serving our country. I was able to take some beautiful pictures of Roma in his uniform on graduation day.
    Our family took Roma with us for the day, he supported my son and was by his side when he got engaged that day, and then we went out for supper and enjoyed his company.
    Roma was a fine young man and our hearts go out to his entire family. May God be with all of you.
    Rest in peace Roma, and thank you for having my son’s back in basic. If Errick was here in the states he would have been there for you as well.
    From The Vedder Family

  17. We did not personally know Roma but his presence was felt from our relationship with his brother Mir. Our most sincere heartfelt condolences are extended to all his family and friends.
    Most sincerely,

    Peter and Jean Kubarycz
    9 Shadow Creek Dr.
    Penfield, NY 14526-1063

  18. I still think about you everyday, brother. You were truly a brother to me; someone who showed unconditional kindness and love time and time again. The times we shared growing up have gifted me with countless memories which i will cherish and hold on to until til the day we are reunited. My dearest friend, I miss you and love you unfathomably. Rest easy.

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