Norma Marie (Ducci) McCabe

norma  mccabe

April 21, 1945 ~ March 23, 2024

Born in: Rochester, New York
Resided in: Rochester, New York

Norma Marie McCabe (Ducci)

Norma passed peacefully on Saturday, March 23, 2024, surrounded by her loving family. Predeceased by her mother and father, Angela and Joseph Ducci; granddaughter, Alaina Joan Pantaleo; sister, Florence (Robert) Federico; brother, Carl Ducci; sister-in-law, Annie McCabe and brother-in-law, Samuel LaPlaca.

Norma is survived by her beloved husband of 56 years, James McCabe; her loving children, Lauren (Angelo) Pantaleo, and Angela (Patrick) Hargather; grandchildren, Allison Pantaleo, Daniel Pantaleo (Emily Stupka), Karlee Hargather, and James Hargather; sisters-in-law, Nancy Ducci, and Patricia LaPlaca; brother-in-law, Donald McCabe; and many dear nieces, nephews, godchildren, cousins, and friends.

Norma was loved by so many and had a way of bringing people together. She will be greatly missed.

Friends may call Monday (March 25th) 4-8 PM at Vay-Schleich and Meeson, 1075 Long Pond Road. Her Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Tuesday ( March 26th) at 11:00 AM at The Parish of the Holy Family, 4100 Lyell Road. Interment will follow in Holy Ghost Cemetery, 269 Coldwater Rd. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Coldwater Women and Children Residential Home or the Hildebrandt Hospice Care Center in her memory.


Visitation: March 25, 2024 4:00 pm - March 24, 2024 8:00 pm

Vay-Schleich & Meeson - Greece Chapel
1075 Long Pond Road
Rochester, NY 14626

Mass of Christian Burial: March 26, 2024 11:00 am

Parish of the Holy Family
4100 Lyell Road
Rochester, NY 14606

Burial: March 26, 2024 12:30 pm

Holy Ghost Cemetery
250 Coldwater Road
Rochester, NY

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  1. Wishing you peace and comfort as you navigate this difficult time. I am keeping you in my thoughts and sending my deepest condolences.

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