January 16, 1990 ~ October 11, 2020

Born in: Rochester, NY
Resided in: Syracuse , NY

Greece: Went home to the Lord, Sunday, October 11, 2020 at age 30.

Survived by parents Joseph and Kimberly Vitelli; sisters, Alicia (Evan) Mendola, Christina Vitelli, Rachel (Oliver) Colaprete; uncle to : Andrew Mendola, Lila Mendola, David Mendola, Amelia Colaprete; uncles, Mark (Shelley) Wojtowicz, Michael (Alyse) Wojowicz, John Vitelli; aunts, Julie Green, Jamie (Jim) Kingsley; grandparents, Vito (Maypat) Vitelli, Jim & Bonnie Wojtowicz; many loving family and friends.

Friends may call Friday (Oct 16 th ) 4-7 PM at Vay-Schleich and Meeson,
1075 Long Pond Road. His Celebration of Life will be held Saturday
(Oct 17 th ) 11:00 AM at First Bible Baptist Church, please visit to reserve a seat. Private Interment.


Visitation: October 16, 2020 4:00 pm - October 16, 2020 7:00 pm

Vay-Schleich & Meeson - Greece Chapel
1075 Long Pond Road
Rochester, NY 14626

Memorial: October 17, 2020 11:00 am

First Bible Baptist Church
990 Manitou Road
Hilton , NY 14468

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  1. Kim – you are your family are in my prayers. I pray God’s comfort, peace, and presence during this very difficult time.

  2. Dear Kim & Joe, we are heart broken at the news of your beautiful son, Jordan’s passing. Words could never express the pain and sorrow we feel for your loss. We are praying for you and all the family during this difficult time. We hope you can find comfort in the life Jordan lived, his amazing contributions to his family, his friends and everyone who knew him. With love and deepest sympathy, Arlene & Craig

  3. We will miss his smile and humor—he would stop by frequently when out riding with Jeff and have “lunch with gramma Rita”. My mother loved that a young man would just sit and talk with her! He was such a sweet and lovely man–we will miss him terribly.
    Our thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
    Jeff and Kathy Hayden
    Gramma Rita Mook

  4. I have wonderful memories of Jordan in church teen class. Especially when we did a sign language ministry piece to “Mary Did You Know” We performed it for FBBC and other venues. Jordan had such kind nature, he took this ministry to heart and was serious about the passion in the message. I know how much he meant to all of his family and realize this will leave a huge void. Take heart that you will be reunited someday soon. Our love and prayers are with you.

  5. Kim, Joe, and family. We are so saddened to hear of your tragic loss of Jordan. A fine young man, leaving us way too soon. We will miss his spunk and the smile he wore when pulling up in your driveway on his motorcycle. Our thoughts, deepest condolences and prayers are with you.

  6. Joe and Kim and family,
    The Whitley family in NC have such fond memories of Jordan. He and our Clay are the same age. We are so sorry to hear of his passing. Our hearts are with you and though we did not know you or him well, and since Ben moved back from NY, we have lost contact somewhat, we do understand and know the pain you must feel. Doris and I are praying with and for you.

  7. I’m so very sorry to the Vitelli family. Especially my dear friends Rachel and Christina. You’re all in my prayers always.

  8. I am just heartbroken at this news. I am so very sorry for your loss and am praying for grace, peace and comfort for you all and I will continue to pray.

  9. Kim and Joe,
    I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of your son. You are in my prayers, may God grant you peace, grace and comfort during this journey.
    Betsy Wituszynski

  10. To the Vitelli Family,

    I am so sorry for your loss. Jordan was a wonderful, genuine, and compassionate person. He will be missed on this earth. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  11. Joe and Kim,
    I was heart broken to hear the news of Jordan’s passing. He was an amazing guy and an inspiration in many ways. Though it’s been a while since him and I have spoken, my fondest memories of him were when we used to jam together when we were in high school, and play soccer. We had some amazing chats about life and it’s hard to see him pass but comforting to know he’s at peace with Jesus now! Many prayers to you and your family!

  12. Dear Joe, Kim and Family, We are so sorry to hear of your tragic loss of Jordan. Please know you are all in our prayers and we love you very much.
    Henry and Sue laparra

  13. Joe, Kim and family,
    Our deepest condolences and prayers go out to all of you. Our memories of Jordan are full of laughter and sweet wonderful times together. We will always smile when thinking of Jordan. May God’s comfort, love, peace and strength surround you at this very difficult time. We love you all dearly.
    Philippians 4:7.

    Love David and Lori Hall

  14. Dear Kim, Joe and family,
    I am so sorry for the loss of Jordan. I love your sweet family and will be praying for you all.

  15. Dear Joe and Kim
    Sad and surprised to see this news! Jordan is a lovely kid in my memory. I am missing him! Wish you pease and comfort through this very difficult time! I pray for you and family!

  16. I am so very sorry for your loss. I remember the times we all would hang out together as kids. He was a big part of my and my brother Nathan’s childhood memories. He will be missed dearly. My prayers are with you.

  17. Joe and Kim our hearts and prayers go out to you and your whole family. Jordan was always a good friend to Nathan and always had a smile on his face. We pray that God comforts you during this time.

    Dave & Sharon Smith

  18. Kim, Joe and family,
    Our hearts hurt for you and your family. We have no words, just sorrow for your family’s devastating loss. We know our son Ryan will miss Jordan’s humor, laughter and all around good spirit and friendship they shared at Town and Country. Know that you are loved much and being lifted in prayers daily
    Mark and Patty Palma

  19. We met through work. Jordan was always pleasant and conversations insightful. I am saddened to hear of his transition. My prayers are with his family & friends.

  20. Joe and Kim, and family. I am saddened to read of your loss. I hope you find comfort in your strong faith and in the pleasant memories of Jordan that you all hold in your hearts. Most sincerely, Bill Bishop.

  21. Kim – I was heart broken to hear of Jordan’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you go through this difficult time. My God’s love hold all of you in peace and comfort.

  22. Our prayers go out to each family member, friend and acquaintances. My fondest memory of Jordan
    is his laugh, more like a giggle, and his smile. He is home now and you will soon be reunited. In deepest
    sympathy, The Conley’s

  23. Kim and family, I have no words that will comfort you. Know that God had a plan for Jordan and even though we may not understand or like the plan, it is God’s plan and there is reason behind it. Trust that God will always be there to hold you up, to comfort you and to bring you through these most difficult days. I did not know Jordan, but in knowing you Kim I am sure that he was an extremely wonderful person. May he rest in peace in the loving presence of our God and Savior and may God hold you all in the palm of His hand and comfort you when you need Him the most.

  24. Our prayers and deepest sympathy to the Vitelli family from Jim and Michelle Castelli future in laws of Jeff Hayden

  25. Joe, Kim and family; so sorry to hear about the home going of Jason.
    I remember being invited to his graduation party and I got soaked trying to get out of there, in torrential rain that day. God bless you all, may He comfort you in your time of need. Lou Mc Louth

  26. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time

    Prayers for comfort and Strength for all of the family.

    Bob and Bev Newman

  27. So sorry to hear about Jordan. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I remember all the good times that we had, years ago, at the home school group. Some great memories that I will never forget. Liz Newman

  28. Vito (Grandpa) and Mary Pat Vitelli, 46 Ritter Lane, Fairport, NY 14450. Visited at 2:00 pm

  29. We are thinking about you all , you are in our thoughts and prayers and we are so sorry for your loss .

  30. Joe and Kim,
    There are no words that I can think of that can possibly help with the passing of Jordan. I cannot imagine the grief that you must be going through. I am truly sorry for your loss. There are so many people that love you and are there for you if you need them. Again, I am sorry,
    Steve Gundrum

  31. Joe & Kim,

    We are so so sorry to hear of Jordan’s passing…our hearts ache for you and your family. We will be praying diligently for you and everyone close to Jordan. Know that our Lord is with you and will never leave you nor forsake you.

    Love and Prayers,
    Tom and Christine Giunta

    Psalm 34:18 – The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

  32. Joe, Kim and family – we are so sorry for your loss. This is heartbreaking, and we pray the Lord be with you all and comfort you. May the many wonderful memories you have of Jordan help keep him in all of your hearts until you meet with him again. With love, Steve and Sandy

  33. Jordan, you became a great friend to us here at the Bernardine Apts. It was so nice to see your smiling face when you came there. You will truly be missed. Jessica Hamacher
    Lissette Garcia

  34. Joe and Kim,
    We are heartbroken for you all. We have been in your shoes and can say we know what you’re feeling. Please call us if you need to talk , cry, or just pray together. We remember the boys playing together as little ones it was Jacob, Sean, Josh, Jordan. We love you both very much.

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