November 15, 1990 ~ March 1, 2021

Born in: Rochester, NY
Resided in: Greece, NY

Jessie M. Schlageter

Greece:  Jessie passed unexpectedly on March 1, 2021 at the age of 30.She is survived by her father James M Schlageter, Sister Jill M Schlageter (Miles Griswold), nephews Hugh and Beau Griswold, Grandmother Shirley Quenell, Uncle Mark Schlageter (Laurie Muscarella), Aunt Anne Marie Schlageter Aunt Eileen Quenell, Life partner Andrew Blend, life long friend Samantha Volpe along with many other family members and friends.

She fought and overcame many struggles in life. But will always be remembered for her kindness, love, ambition and ability to bring happiness to everyone.

Jessie‘s visitation will be held Wednesday, March 10, 2021 4-7 PM at Vay-Schleich & Meeson 1075 Long Pond Road.  For more information and to sign her online guestbook, visit


Visitation: March 10, 2021 4:00 pm - March 10, 2021 7:00 pm

Vay-Schleich & Meeson - Greece Chapel
1075 Long Pond Road
Rochester, NY 14626

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  1. Forever will be in our thoughts. She’s such an amazing person. She will forever be loved.

  2. My deepest condolences to the family of such a spectacular woman. May you lean on those who love you most during this time. Jessie was a gift to many and will be forever missed. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.

    -Kristyn Coccitti

  3. Jessie, you will be so missed for all of eternity. Your soul was kind and bright. My deepest condolences to your family. You are all in my thoughts and heart during this difficult time.
    Rest in peace beautiful girl.

  4. Forever young Jessie ❤️ Until next time.

    Sending my condolences to your family and friends .

  5. I will look after them, and make sure they know how special their Aunt Jessie is. RIP beautiful

  6. I love you so much B. I will forever cherish all of our memories together. Thank you for everything you’ve taught me. My deepest condolences to her family.

  7. Jessie will be missed by our family. She was a bright smile and a wonderful person. We had fond memories and she was able to pass her comic personalities to me. I will miss her dearly.

  8. We did not know your Jessie, but we lived across the street from her. We just wanted to say, we are so sorry for your loss. May she Rest In Peace 🙏🏼

  9. I did not know Jessie, but my son did. I cannot imagine the pain and heartache you are feeling at this time.
    May she rest in peace with the angels by her side. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.

  10. Prayers and condolences to all Jessies family and friends.
    She is a beautiful soul who will be greatly missed. Riparadise

  11. I’ll forever be thankful & blessed to have known you these past few years. Thank you for the countless, hugs, smiles, laughs & wonderful memories Jess. I Love you so much. Rest in peace. My condolonces to all your family & Loved ones

  12. Jim and family,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
    Jim, I’m sorry I didn’t see you tonight.
    I can’t say how sorry I am for your loss.
    My deepest sympathy’s go out to you and your family.
    Remember the good times, they will be with you forever.

  13. Thank you for all the love and joy that you brought to everyone. I wish I had the opportunity to know you longer but I know you will be missed. Thoughts and prayers to your family.

  14. Jessie, you will be incredibly missed by so many 💗 your family will continuously in my prayers

  15. Fly high my friend you will be missed …. Dear Lord you got one of the good ones I love you Jess rip

  16. Schalgs,
    We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

    Carol and Ed DiCesare
    340 Lake Shore Drive
    Hilton NY, 14468

  17. So sorry to hear of Jessie’s passing. I was one of her teachers at Arcadia. So sad. She ate lunch with me and another student one year:(

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