March 6, 1931 ~ September 30, 2019

Born in: Rochester, NY
Resided in: Rochester, NY

Betty J. DeCoste
Rochester: Monday, September 30, 2019 at age 88. Predeceased by her parents, John and Edna Angie; husband, Donald L. DeCoste; sons, William and Peter; great-grandson, Maxwell; 11 siblings. Survived by her children, Linda (Daniel) Glanton, Dennis (Debra) DeCoste, Denise Wood, Deborah (Charles) Ward, Tina (Terry) Elie and Betty (Neil) Curtis; daughters-in-law, Corrine DeCoste, Sharon DeCoste; step-sons, Donald DeCoste and Frederick DeCoste; sisters, Lorraine and Edna; sisters-in-law, Judy and Mariam; 30 grandchildren; 61 great-grandchildren; 8 great-great-grandchildren; several nieces, nephews, cousins and dear friends.
Friends may call Friday (Oct 4th) 10-12 NOON at the Vay-Schleich & Meeson, 1075 Long Pond Road. Her Graveside Prayers will follow calling in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Visiting Nurse Hospice or Rochester Regional Health System Home Care in her memory. For more information, or to sign Betty’s online guestbook, please visit
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Visitation: Friday October 4, 2019 10:00 AM - Friday October 4, 2019 12:00 PM

Vay-Schleich & Meeson - Greece Chapel
1075 Long Pond Road
Rochester, NY 14626

Graveside Prayers: Friday October 4, 2019 12:00 PM - Friday October 4, 2019 12:00 PM

Holy Sepulchre Cemetery
2461 Dewey Avenue
Rochester, NY 14612

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The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Betty J. DeCoste 's name.

Visiting Nurse Service of Rochester, Hospice Program

2180 Empire Blvd Webster, NY 14580

Rochester Regional Health Foundation

100 Kings Highway South Suite 2300 Rochester, NY 14617

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  1. To the DeCoste family,
    With our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

    May it comfort you to know that we’re so sorry to hear of your loss.

    "We want to say that you ‘re in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time

    May the Lord bring peace and love to your family

  2. So Sorry for your families loss, I just heard about her passing or I would have attended her service, She was always a sweet woman and always welcomed me into her home along with my dad John, they can all enjoy each others company again. My prayers are with you all at this time.

  3. Sending our deepest condolences to all of aunt Betty’s family. She will be truly missed. With loving regards, Tom & Kerry

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