Danene Sneddon Smith
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Danene Sneddon Smith Hilton: Monday, January 31, 2022 at age 44, Danene went home suddenly to the Lord; predeceased by her maternal grandparents, Maxwell and Helen Brasseur and paternal grandparents, Earl and Lucy Sneddon. She is survived by her loving parents, Dennis and Diann Sneddon; her beloved brother, Darren Sneddon (fiancé, Laura King); devoted sons who were the love of her life, Brayden and Tanner; her loving companion of 7 years, Lucas MacKay; uncle, Gary (Shirley) Brasseur; aunt, Diana Lytal; niece, Samantha Sneddon; nephew, Benjamin Sneddon; Collin and Jimmy; cousins, Tara and Gary Lee Brasseur; Karen Peters, who was like a sister, and her lifelong dear friend Jodi Penoyer; many loving family and dear friends. Danene graduated from Hilton High School where she was a Hilton 2001 Sports Hall of Fame inductee. Danene was a graduate of St. John Fischer where she earned her RN, BSN degree in Nursing. She was a RN for the U of R and loved caring for others as a Visiting Nurse and a trainer for new nurses as they entered the profession. She was a proud and devoted mother and enjoyed spending her time with her boys, her family, and her circle of friends. Danene took great pride in watching her boys during sporting and dramatic events. In honor of Danene please feel free to wear sports jerseys to the service in memory of Danene. She Volunteered in numerous clubs and functions supporting her Boys and local community. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her. Danene’s visitation will be held Sunday, February 6th 12:00 PM – 3:00 PM where her service will follow at 3:00 PM in the funeral home. Private Entombment, Riverside Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Scholarship funds for Brayden and Tanner Smith Please make checks payable to New York’s 529 Advisor Guided College Saving’s Program and note for either Brayden or Tanner, mail to 1075 Long Pond Road Rochester NY 14626 or a GoFundMe account has been set up at https://gofund.me/de3f682f or to the Hilton United Methodist Church, 21 West Avenue Hilton, NY 14468 in her memory. For more information and to sign her online guestbook, visit www.meesonfamily.com
Ron and I have broken hearts. Our love goes out to Braydon and Tanner, Den and Diann, Darren and Luke and so many others who love Danene. You will never forget you—a beautiful soul who will live in our hearts forever.
I had the pleasure and the honor to work with Danene at UR Medicine Homecare Care since 2004. In 2015, I became the "Pink Team" manager, and Danene became the senior RN on our team. She was my right hand. She was strong, confident, caring, and had all of the answers. Danene was the definition of a Home Care nurse and over the years even took care of my own family. She made everything ok. Danene was a terrific role model to her peers and trained so many of the successful nurses I know today. Danene lit up any room she was in. Her laugh and her spirit were infectious. She made you laugh if you were sad, and she would lift you up on days when you were down. I also had the opportunity to share the hockey mom passion with Danene, and see what a great mom she was to Tanner and Brayden. She was so very proud of them. Rest in Peace Danene. I love you. Your light will continue to shine through all you have touched, and you will be in my heart forever.
I will miss you so much Danene. You brought light and laughter to my life! I will miss talking about life and laughing about the silly things during our appointments. Such an amazing mom to those wonderful boys. You will always be in my heart ♥️
Danene was such a bright light in many people’s lives, every time she can into the office she was so full of smiles and her bubbly personality she would brighten your day. She never made you feel like you were bothering her, she always made time for me and my many questions through the years. Danene was a great friend and coworker I will miss her and her wonderful personality so much. Rest in peace Danene.
I cannot tell you how sorry I was to hear this the other day. My heart aches for you all… Danene wasn’t just a lovely person. She was special. She had such a heart and a beautiful soul. A true Martha with a servant’s heart and so gifted in her work with people. From the time she was a teen (when I first met her) she simply shone with grace, wit, warmth and humor… and a special brand of caring that made her amazing at her chosen career. I am sorry, Sneddon crew… so very sorry. I heard this in disbelief and it still seems impossible… I am so very glad to have known your beautiful girl.
To The most beautiful and wonderful daughter and mother that anyone could ever want. My heart ❤️ is broken. I will miss your smiles, laughter and your never ending love for all of us. Will always love you !!!!!!
Our hearts are broken with the incredible loss of this amazing young woman. I was blessed to be able to see our little Danene Bean grow up to be the absolute light of her parents life. She brought so much joy and laughter to us all. Her special gift of caring for others was just one of the things that made her so special. She cared lovingly for her Gram in her final days. GiGi loved her so much and I am sure was there to greet her. I will always keep her close in heart and mind. Love you Danene, Aunt Diana
We met Danene visiting our daughter Jenine Hoffman this past fall. I had heard so much about Danene over the years and I knew she meant the world to my daughter and family. I met a kind, funny, loving woman, a fantastic friend, and I will always remember her with the huge smile she greeted me with and the warm hug and her calling me mom. She had that rare ability to make strangers feel instantly at home. The hole she leaves in this universe will never be closed, but she’ll be held close in the many hearts of everyone who loved her. I’m so glad I got to meet her.
So I’m going to miss that contagious smile and humor more than anything. I worked with Danene in home care and also got to spend time with her watching our boys play Lacrosse. I also had the opportunity to get hit in the leg by one of her softball pitches our senior year, playing against her. I think there is still a mark. LOL. She was so sweet, even then, and ran up to me to apologize to make sure I was OK. I am a better person for being blessed to know her. I will continue to pray for her, her wonderful family, and those two beautiful boys.
My most sincere sympathy to Tanner and Brayden, Mr. and Mrs, Sneddon and Danene’s entire family. I had the honor of working with Danene for the last 17 years and can attest to her being a superior nurse. Her patients and coworkers loved her. She was no nonsense and could let patients know what they needed to do, but did so in a caring and fun way. Her sparkling smile was effervescent. She was a bright light in the UR medicine home care family and our hearts are heavy with her loss. Tanner and Brayden, you meant the world to her! She was so proud of you. Your mother was always telling stories about you and her eyes would twinkle as she did. Keep her in your hearts and know that she will continue to influence you with the memories and insights she has given you through the years. I am so sorry for your loss.
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I worked with Danene at RGH early in her career. She was beautiful inside and out , I was heartbroken to hear of her sudden passing. She was a wonderful Nurse and I loved knowing her. My heart goes out to her boys , I know they were her everything , I am so sad for you all. Many prayers to her whole family.
You are a very special soul who will be missed greatly!! With love always, Sammy J, Breana and Diana
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A huge loss for our hockey family – she was always smiling, fun loving, and supporting/cheering for her boys. She will be missed so much ….. our hearts and support go out to her boys. ❤️
You lit up a room with your bright eyes, infectious laugh, and great sense of humor. I’m so glad to have known you!
Knowing Danene at Baywinde was a real gift for myself, the staff and especially her residents. She was loved by all. One of her most special gifts to the residents was redoing her gorgeous wedding for the residence at Baywinde, complete with all the gowns and tuxes. So thoughtful and so enjoyed by everyone. A bright light has been dimmed, and I send my love to her family and friends. Bless you, Danene, for the joy that you brought to all.
What she did for my mom I will be forever grateful…above and beyond the call of duty. Her tender care and soft nature was loving and welcoming. Our family is forever grateful to her. God called her because he needed her. God speed, Danene. Thankful to have met you.
Danene was such a wonderful full of life lady she made everyones day, we had lots of good laughs at work i will never forget your smiling face, your beautiful sense of humer , i just cant believe your gone, till we meet again, we all love you
Where to even begin.. I remember my very first day by myself in home care calling Laura crying because I was scheduled to care for a patient that I had no idea how to take care of her needs, Laura told me not to worry that danene would meet me there to help me. I remember being almost in tears in this patients driveway thinking to myself there’s no way I can do this job if I can’t take care of the first patient that was assigned to me, but danene showed up and said “ooh hunny don’t worry I got you.” She was the most kind hearted and patient nurse I have ever come in contact with. I can’t even count the amount of times I called danene asking for help being unsure of myself and my skills, or the amount of times she dropped what she was doing to come and help me. From the daily phone calls to discuss patients to the weekly, or sometimes daily venting sessions to the end a of rough week blue barn visits. She was always laughing, always smiling and always there for you no matter what you needed, and I will be forever grateful for the years I was able to work side by side with her and all the invaluable lessons I learned from her. To Danene’s parents- thank you for raising the most selfless and caring person I have ever met. The amount of people life’s she has touched and the amount of nurses she has helped shape throughout the years will never be forgotten. ❤️
We are going to miss all the fun times when we had family get togethers. We will always remember the trip to Branson when you and Tara watched “Pretty Woman” 21 times in Uncle Gary’s “Pimp Wagon”. We always had so many laughs and good times when we were together. Our family has suffered such a tremendous loss. We will always cherish the time we spent with you. Heaven may not know it but it just gained a beautiful angel who is the “Life of the Party”. Forever in our hearts, Uncle Gary, Aunt Shirley and Cousin Tara
I had the pleasure of working with Danene several years ago. Then fate connected us again thru Diann and Dennis. She had an infectious smile and a huge heart. Heaven gained a Nurse Angel. Prayers for all of you. Rest Peacefully.
Danone was a bright light in this world. Let not her light dim here on earth. Follow in her footsteps. I am so sorry I cannot be there for I am in Puerto Rico with my man. God rest her soul and watch over her family and friends.
How do I put into words a friendship that has lasted almost 44 years? Danene and I have been through the best of times to the worst. Regardless of the situation she had my back! Danene always put her boys first and made sure they didn’t go without. What an amazing person! Danene is truly an angel looking down on us all now!
My fondest memories of Danene go back to our childhood and the times shared at family functions. Danene’s smile and perkiness always lit up the room. She was a caring and genuine person that was always looking out for others, especially my Father when he was in crisis during one of those get togethers. We will miss her and remember her every time we encounter someone performing an act of kindness in this harsh world.
I know Danene through our work at UR Medicine Home Care. Although I never met her face to face my position in the Quality Department allowed me the pleasure of talking to Danene on the phone. No matter how stressful my day might have been as soon as I answered my phone with my usual "QAPI this is Donna" greeting and heard that beautiful, happy voice that always responded with "Hey Donna! It’s Danene!" my stress was gone. She had a way of doing that. We became Facebook friends and I could see from her pictures and her radiant smile how much she loved her boys and how much they love her in return. My heart aches for Danene’s family. God Bless ❤
As neighbors for many years our hearts are so deeply saddened. Danene was a beautiful women inside and out . She touched so many people’s lives in a positive and inspiring way. Everyone that was lucky enough to be touched by her kindness will forever be blessed.
My heart goes out to the family; to Denny and Diane and Danene’s boys. God bless. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Aunt Joyce and Uncle Victor
Robert and Kevin Peters
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Diann, Mary and I are so sorry to hear that your daughter passed away What a great person, We met her when she helped Ron., may she Rest In Peace . John Cianciotto called us here in Florida and told us the sad news, we just arrived here today Saturday. There’s really no words one can say at a time like this. Doug and Mary Macaluso
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You were taken to soon from this place. Raise a little hell in heaven. Be an amazing guardian angel to your boys and to all the people who adored you. You taught me a lot about life. You will forever be in my heart. Until we meet again.
Dennis and family, I send my heartfelt condolences to you for the loss of your dear Danene. May your precious memories help you during this most difficult time. God Bless you all!
I will always remember Danene as such a beautiful and kind soul who was taken from all who knew and loved her far too soon. The Sneddon’s aren’t just family friends, but an extension of our family. Our hearts are broken. Diann, Denny, Darren, Brayden, and Tanner – We are so deeply sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Kim and John Zampatori
Sam & Sue Emerson
Denene You were the best home care nurse I ever had.. You always had a smile that light up my life when I was down in the dumps.. You will be forever in the hearts of everyone you touched.. Love Norma Ottman
My friend. I can’t even believe I’m writing this. I’m not in person to remember you and I’m sorry for that. But those of us who were lucky enough to call you friend have been sharing so many memories with one another since we heard. Even though we haven’t seen each other in a few years, I hope you know how much our friendship meant to me. I love you.
Dear Denny and family, I was so saddened to hear of the passing of Danene. The loss of a loved one is always difficult, but especially at such a young age. I worked with Denny for many years at Kodak and Carestream, and he never missed a chance to relate stories about his family. Hopefully your great memories of Danene will give you the strength to help get through this most difficult time. I will keep you in my prayers.
Words cannot begin to express how sorry we are over the loss of your wonderful daughter. Our hearts and prayers go out to you. She was a ray of sunshine that is so rare and beautiful. The outpouring of love for her is amazing and so deserved. Bless you all. Sending our love, Fran and Sandy Blonsky
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of Danene. She was such a bright light every time we saw her at our family occasions. She was a great mom and friend to our son’s family and she will be sadly missed. Please know you and her boys will remain ever in our prayers. Wishing you peace in time and blessings always, Judy & Tim Spakoski
My condolences to the family especially Dennis and Dianne
The sheer number of people paying their respects at the funeral home alone, were truly a testament to how many lives Danene has touched. Let’s honor her memory and keep her spirit alive. We can continue to celebrate her by enriching the people in our lives with the kindness, compassion, sense of humor and love of family and friends she so freely gave. In doing this …. We will forever keep her in our hearts ♥️
I worked with Danene at VNS. She was dedicated, compassionate and an excellent nurse. She is greatly missed.
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Diane and Dennis, I was shocked to hear such terrible news. There are no words. I am just so very sorry. Donna
My heart is breaking for Danene’s boys, parents, and all of her family and friends. I graduated from SJFC with Danene and all of my best memories from college included her. Her smile and laugh were contagious. Please accept my deepest sympathy during this difficult time.
Danene, I am still in shock. You were my home nurse and you held me I needed it, you stayed with me you comforted me. I will always miss you and love you. Kathy Hill
Thanks Vicky, as you know my family is my greatest achievement …. I really loved and miss her!
Thanks Vicky, as you know I was and am very proud on my family … I loved it so much
Thanks Larry … the memories are great and will value them, but we really loved and miss her,
Tricia … she would love that …. and deserves it!!