Lucien “Jerry” Bardeen

Lucien “Jerry” Bardeen (aka Papa and Big Ugly) passed away peacefully on Thursday, 9/11/2025, in Rochester NY, surrounded by his loving family. Born on March 22, 1942, he led a remarkable life filled with dedication and service to his country, his community and his family.

He served honorably in the United States Marine Corps and the United States Army Reserve during his distinguished military career. He received numerous awards and decorations, including the Bronze Star, for his exceptional contributions to our nation’s defense.  Jerry was a dedicated patriot who served in Desert Shield/Desert Storm, displaying unwavering courage and commitment. He was deeply respected by his fellow service members and will be remembered for his unwavering dedication.  

Jerry was also a retired City of Rochester Police Officer of 20 years where he served the members as Vice-President of the Locust Club.  He was a retired youth officer where he dealt with at-risk juveniles in the City of Rochester. Upon retirement, he was employed by Visiting Nurse Service as security personnel. 

He was a member of the Hamlin Fire Department, American Legion Post 120, Locust Club, Association of Rochester Police & Area Law Enforcement Retirees (ARPALER), soccer coach, Hamlin recreation director, foster parent, animal lover and music enthusiast.

Lastly, he was a beloved husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather.  His presence will be sadly missed from the wonderful family events and gatherings, but more importantly from everyday life.

Jerry was predeceased by his mother, Margaret Bardeen. He is survived by his loving wife, Carol (Zegarski), of 58 “glorious” years; their children, Kevin (Patty) Bardeen, Tina (Michael) Burrage, Melissa Melendez (Danny Mammarello), Marc (Patti) Bardeen and Michael (Terry) Crissman; his grandchildren, Katherine Dickerson (Phillip Luke) , Christopher (Justine) Dickerson , Brandon Dickerson (Amber Johnson), Michael (Alexandra) Burrage, Zachery (Jenna) Bardeen, Nathan Bardeen (Erin Giblin), Mercedes Melendez (Frankie Essom), Jennifer Melendez, Hannah Bardeen (Bradley Beckwith) and Hailey Bardeen; their great-grandchildren, Theo Dickerson, Violet Bardeen, Aston Essom, Barrett Burrage and Lylah Dickerson – who will forever cherish his memory.  Extended family include David Borland, Arturo  Melendez (Eileen Tipton) and Jimmie (Nancy) Larson.

Friends may call Thursday (Sept 18th) 4-7 PM at Vay-Schleich & Meeson, 1075 Long Pond Road. His Memorial Service will be held Friday (Sept 19th) 10:30 AM in the Funeral Home Chapel. Interment in Holy Sepulchre  Cemetery.  In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to The Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research – Donate to Continue Supporting The Michael J. Fox Foundation in his memory.