Scott D. O'Brien

scott  o'brien

November 5, 1963 ~ December 16, 2021

Born in: Rochester, NY
Resided in: Greece , NY

Scott D. O’Brien

11/5/63-12/16/21

The life of the party left this party called life suddenly on Thursday, December 16, 2021.

Predeceased by his parents, Jerry and Dolores O’Brien.  He will be dearly missed by his sister and brothers, Eileen (Marty) Wolff, Jerry O’Brien, Eric (Evy) O’Brien, Shawn (Tammy) O’Brien; life partner and best friend, Lisa Lodar and her son Adam; nephews and nieces, Christian Wolff, Tyler Wolff, Melissa (Colin) Corner, Jessica O’Brien, Evan (Christina) O’Brien, Andrew O’Brien, Michael O’Brien, Taylor (Tom Dalberth) O’Brien, great nephews and nieces, cousins and many friends. 

An Army veteran, Scott was a member of the American Legion, Greece Post 468, and a driver at First Student.

We will all miss his humor, his bluntness, his kindness, and his presence in our lives.  Scott loved bringing people together and could turn any occasion into a party.  A celebration of his life will be held at a later date.

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  1. I will never forget that smile of yours… The way you welcomed me into the family…you will be forever in my heart. Til we meet again❤❤❤❤

  2. RIP Scottie,
    You always made me smile, you will be missed by many….Now it’s your turn to watch us 💙

    Your friend Carmelina

  3. O’Brien! I miss our conversations and the way you always gave me a hard time. You truly are missed by many. Until we meet again my friend. 💔 love you

  4. I am very fortunate to call you my friend, you will be greatly missed and loved forever, don’t stop doing what you do wherever you may end up, cause a little havoc and have a lot of fun.

  5. Scott, a true friend who will be sadly missed by all who knew you…lived life on your terms..till we meet again on the other side….

  6. Sending sincere condolences and all my love to Scotts family and friends. Had a lot of good times and laughs with Scott, he will be missed.

  7. I’ve been friends with Scott since high school, Scott had a way of making everyone feel welcome. Scott was loyal loving funny as hell . When you’re around him you always felt safe and loved Scott was like home. Always a smile to greet you and a big bear hug. I will miss him his laugh his raunchy sense of humor. Love you Scott rest easy but keep on partying.

  8. So sorry for the loss of Scott!! He was one if a kind and he always brought a smile to my face!! Cheers my friend!! Hugs to Lisa and the family!!

  9. Scott, you touched the hearts and lives of many people. You had a way of making others feel welcomed and that we all mattered. You will be missed. I am a better person for knowing you. Rest in peace my friend.

  10. Scott, you have touched so many people’s lives with your smile and kindness. You made everyone feel welcomed and that we truly mattered. You will be greatly missed. Rest in peace my friend knowing you have made a difference in this world.

  11. Scott, i am going to miss your sense of humor and one liners..always a great time at family get togethers..they will never be the same anymore.
    RIP, keep on partying on
    See you on the other side
    Love you Cuz, Diane

  12. To the O’Brien family, and Lisa. We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Scott. I have many good memories of Scott from our childhood days, and through high school. Thinking of you all during this time.

  13. We send our condolences to Lisa and the O’Brian Family. Such a shock, we will miss Scott and his humor at the Post. He will be with his Mom and Dad now whom he loved so much. God bless you all at this sad time.
    Rick and Sue

  14. My condolences to all of Scott’s family & friends. May you find comfort and peace in such a difficult time.(((HUGS)))
    Scott will be missed and will be an angel with his infectious smile up in heaven now. 🙏❤️🕊

  15. We have many fun memories together with Scott from years past that we will treasure. He was a great friend. Praying all the O’Brien/Lodar family will find comfort and peace during this difficult time. Truly sorry for your loss.

  16. Scott our hearts are broken. You were a true best friend, trustworthy and straightforward. Your humor was always the life of the party and many camping times. Our sympathy to the entire O’brien family and Lisa. We love you “Sarge”.

    Tom and Mel Wilson

  17. Scott our hearts are broken. You were a true best friend, trustworthy and straightforward. Your humor was always the life of the party and many camping times. Our sympathy to the entire O’brien family and Lisa. We love you “Sarge”.
    Tom and Mel Wilson

  18. To Lisa and all my cousins. We lost a powerhouse and a very humorous being. R.I.P Scott, you are missed. Til we meet again 💔

  19. Rest In Peace Scott you will never be forgotten, every time I hear Dumpster Chicken I will remember you with a smile in my heart. Till we meet again

  20. Scott our hearts are broken. Your humor, smile and your heart of gold will be missed more than words can ever express. We will cherish all the fantastic memories and laughs we had together. RIP my dear friend and much love always.

    Our deepest condolences to Lisa and the O’Brien family. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.

  21. RIP Scott. Such a tremendous loss to the family. So many great memories with you that I will cherish forever, I always looked up to you as a big brother. My condolences to the rest of the family , Lisa and everyone who knew and loved you

  22. RIP Scott. Such a tremendous loss to the family . Some of my best memories are of the times we spent hanging out together. I always looked up to you as a big brother and will cherish the times we spent together. You are truly one of a kind. My condolences go out to the rest of the family , Lisa and everyone who loved you.

  23. Thank you for all the wonderful memories. Some of which are a little foggy 😊
    I will miss early morning text and bloody mary breakfast invites.

    Go dtí go mbuailfimid le chéile arís

    Heartbroken

  24. Long time friend since early 70’s lived on the same street and shared the same Birthday and year 11-05-63 many good memories and laughs will miss you my friend R I P

  25. I’ve known Scott since the early 70’s lived on the same street and shared the same Birthday and year 11-05-63 we’ve had many good times and laughs will miss you RIP

  26. Our Sincere Condolences To The Family, You With Be Missed
    In Our Hearts, Knowing You Was Truly A Gift That We Will Cherish Forever.
    Rest In Peace, Our Friend 💔💔
    Kevin & Deb

  27. Scott,
    We go back a long time. So many laughs (and a few tears) together. I can’t even imagine life without your presence. I know you’ll be making everyone laugh where you are now. Til meet me again, my friend.

  28. Scott, I cannot be you’re gone. You will be missed. Especially how you could make anyone laugh who sat with you.
    My thoughts and prayers are with Scott’s family, friends and loved ones.
    See you on the other side.

  29. I am just now hearing about Scott’s passing and I am In total shock. I really am sad I was not able to say goodbye buddy, But you will be missed. Rest in peace brother.

  30. We live behind Scott,our backyards connect.We bought our houses within 1month of each other.We quickly became friends.Our dogs loved each other.I just saw his sister we knew something wasn’t right.We are in shock.We are so deeply sorry.We couldn’t have asked for a better neighbor or new friend.Summer won’t be the same…ride that new bike in heaven,Scott.


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