Mary Jean

February 8, 1928 ~ October 26, 2021

Born in: Rochester, NY
Resided in: Greece , NY



Greece:  It is with deep sadness that the family of Mary Jean Plumeri announce her passing on October 26, 2021 at  the age of 93. Escorted by the Blessed Mother, she is now in the arms of her husband and true love of 73 years, Nicholas. In addition to her husband, Nicholas (2018), she is also predeceased by her grandson, Matthew Plumeri (2010); her parents, Peter and Phyllis Mcfarlane; her in-laws, Louis and Josephine Plumeri; her siblings, Walter (Mary Lou) Mcfarlane, Mary (Plumeri)

Foster, Louis (Ardis) Plumeri, and John Plumeri. She leaves behind to carry on her legacy of love, her children, Robert (Mary) Plumeri, Colleen (Dan) Coltoniak, and Nora Plumeri; along with her grandchildren, Christina (Michael) Ulsh, Jeffery (Megan) Coltoniak, Lisa (Ben) Cohen, Sara (Brett) St. Pierre, and Megan (Craig) Shaughnessy; her great grandchildren, Caleb, Mackenzie, Autumn, Elise, Abby, Joey, Fox, Gwen, Kaiden, Owen and Kelly.

She was a devoted homemaker. Her happiest days were those spent doting on her family and loved ones. Those who met her liked her instantly and were forever better. She will be greatly missed. A special thank you to Lifetime Hospice Care for their kindness over the last month in helping to grant her wish of staying in her home.

Friends may call Saturday (Oct 30th) 10-11 AM at Vay-Schleich and Meeson, 1075 Long Pond Road, where her Funeral Service will follow calling at 11:00 AM in the Funeral Hone Chapel.  Interment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery.  In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Lifetime Care Hospice or the charity of your choice in her memory.


Visitation: October 30, 2021 10:00 am - October 30, 2021 11:00 am

Vay-Schleich & Meeson - Greece Chapel
1075 Long Pond Road
Rochester, NY 14626

Service: October 30, 2021 11:00 am

Vay-Schleich & Meeson - Greece Chapel
1075 Long Pond Road
Rochester, NY 14626

Burial: October 30, 2021 12:00 pm

Holy Sepulchre Cemetery
2461 Dewey Avenue
Rochester, NY 14612

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The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Mary Jean Plumeri 's name.

Lifetime Care

3111 South Winton Rd. Rochester, NY 14623

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  1. Aunt Jean was always incredibly kind and gentle whenever we would visit. She and Uncle Nick would tell stories and entertain my kids (PJ and Lexi), and share words of wisdom. We will miss her very much, and always remember how she made us feel very welcome in her home. Healing and peaceful wishes to the rest of the family. Patrick and Beth Plumeri (NC).

  2. I am heartbroken. Jean was an amazing neighbor. I’ve been here 19 years and she made my little one and me feel welcome the day we moved in.
    When I lost my teenage son she waited for hours in line to see me to show me support. He always made sure we went and saw Mr Nick and Ms Jean on trick or treat nite. He loved going there. I am going to miss seeing her outside and stopping for our little chats. I’ve never met a more kind person.

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